Ok. I feel as though I have to explain myself.
I am a single mom as far as Jay doesn't live with me, and gives very little support financially. He does come see her and we have begun to see each other again. So the WE in my post is my "baby daddy."
I DID take the morning after pill Next Choice. We had started talking about baby names before that and I thought maybe it wouldn't be that bad to have two kids close in age. Well, when I realized I could actually of gotten pregnant the last time we had sex I realized I am not ready for baby #2.
I HAD been on birth control. My bc story is long. I planned on Mirena throughout the whole pregnancy. When it was time to get it, my dr. told me my insurance no longer would cover it. He wrote a script for a patch, insurance didn't over it. I won't get the shot, and I don't like the Paraguard because it last 10 years and insurance won't cover the removal before that. So I reluctantly too the pill. My cycle was only 21 days the first month. When I got my period I was bleeding so badly I went to the hospital. I was passing golfball sized clots. They told me it was from the birth control.
I wasn't with Jay at that time. So I figured I'm not trying to have sex with anyone right now so why bother with birth control that makes me sick.
Which leads to my BBC post which resulted in lots of bashing. I am not a stupid person. I can see my post was poorly put together, but some of the comments were a little much. I was NOT contemplating an abortion there. Nor would I ever!
All in all I'm sorry to those offended.
